This is the book I wish I had read a year ago.
I am a fan of autobiography and biography. A friend of mine remarked some months ago that I don’t seem to read much fiction. It’s true I don’t. I read some, but not much. I prefer the stories of real people.
Figuring Sh!t Out is a very real account of a very real situation. Amy Biancolli writes about the experience of losing her husband of twenty years to suicide following a six month period of mental illness.
I was expecting the book to be way more about suicide than it was. I confess that it took me several months to actually buy the book and read it precisely because I thought it would be more about processing the suicide aspect of the death. As it turns out the author is no stranger to suicide which explains why there is less soul searching more compassion than I expected.
Mostly it is book about finding her way, after the loss of her beloved. It is a book about the experience of grief following the death of a spouse.
And I wish this book had been available a year ago.
This is one of those books that everyone should read before they need to. You can’t read books on grief once you are in the midst of it. So read it now. Read it for yourself; read it for your siblings; read it for your friends.
The book is well written and very humorous in places. It is also one of the very few books that have moved me to tears.
I wish I had read this book a year ago, because I would have been able to be more present to my close friend following the untimely death of her husband in March.
I want to thank Amy Biancolli for her honesty, and her willingness to share her journey.
(I am well aware that this an odd post for Christmas Eve – but it’s all I have to give!)